Animal v/s John
Girls are crazy about ‘Animal’, but I found John Wick!
No matter how brave or pleasant a man is to society, a wife always wants ‘A husband’, who must not be shared!
I know a man, who used to be very famous amongst friends, very likeable amongst girls ; I loved him. And eventually, I understood how traumatic it is to share him with others. I made mistakes , finding ways to cope up with such feelings; which became reasons for our separation.
Those were the days, when I didn’t knew how relationships need to work. I thought forgiving and letting go of things is the only way to make relationships work. Days passed, my love for him made me accept that it is fine to “enjoy” for “rejuvenation”. I accept being a part of this process, but the guilt used to be heartbreaking. One fine day, I got a call from him, inviting me for his marriage. I don’t deny the minimal efforts he made by introducing me to his family with no defense against their hate. I really appreciate the efforts he made to help me deal with my insecurities. But was this justified to “enjoy” out of a relationship? No! It shouldn’t go this way.
However, after a year, I found “John Wick”. He made me realise that not everything needs a Constitution to work, not every mistake needs punishment but relationships work when partners are in love and ready to devote themselves ethically to stay together. I understood how obvious it is to stay loyal in a distant relationship, call each other, eliminate available proposals, etc. A relationship is not a balance sheet of deeds and duties which needs to be balanced every time but Now I understood it was about helping the other in their vulnerable state.
I am happy for what I have now.
I never got any apologies or regretful statements from “John”, because of his “enjoyments” outside the relationship. This is enough for me, as a partner to stay loyal and happy.
While Ranvijay can give reasons to “enjoy”, John is no less in his actions, but ensures refraining from being shared!
Destiny is pre-decided, I can’t claim things being legal ; but yes, I am with a loyal and the most heroic man & an Alpha man of this decade. He is a life saviour to many, including me!
I admire him more than I love him!
“ In a world full of Sandeep Reddy Vanga’s Ranvijay Balbir Singh , I am blessed with Keanu Reeves’ John Wick ; provided I get to love and live with him, forever!”
